The Client-Stylist Connection: Finding "The One" for Your Hair
We’ve all been there. You move to a new city, you’ve finally unpacked the last box, and now the real challenge begins—finding a new Hair Stylist. You do a quick Google search, only to be bombarded with endless options. Balayage specialists, curl experts, vivid color wizards—where do you even start? It’s enough to make you want to throw your hair into a messy bun and call it a day.
But don’t worry, I’ve got you. As a stylist and salon owner with over 20 years of experience, I know firsthand that finding the right stylist is not always easy. It can even feel a little like dating. Sometimes, you meet, and there’s an instant spark—you just click. Other times, the vibe is off, communication is unclear, and you leave feeling less than thrilled but wish them well on their journey. The good news? There are ways to narrow down the search before ever stepping foot in a salon chair.
1. Stalk Their Work (In a Non-Creepy Way)
Gone are the days of blindly booking a hair appointment based on a salon’s fancy signage. Thanks to social media, most stylists have a digital portfolio on Instagram or TikTok, showcasing their work. This is a goldmine! Look for:
✅ Styles similar to what you’re looking for
✅ Before-and-after transformations
✅ Client hair types that match yours (curly, fine, thick, etc.)
✅ A glimpse of the stylist’s personality (Are they fun and chatty? More low-key?)
A quick scroll can help you decide if they align with your vision before even making that first call.
2. Do Your Homework on the Salon Itself
Beyond the stylist, the salon environment plays a big role in your experience. Some salons specialize in lived-in color and effortless waves, while others are all about precision cuts and high-fashion styles. Check out the website, give them a call, and—if they have a front desk coordinator—ask for recommendations. They know the team inside and out.
For example, at my salons, we have stylists that excel in different services. If someone calls inquiring about double-process blonding at my Minneapolis location, I immediately send them to Andie, our resident platinum hair expert. Finding a stylist who loves and excels at what you need is key!
3. Read the Reviews (With a Grain of Salt)
Reviews can be incredibly insightful, but keep in mind—no stylist or salon is perfect 100% of the time. Look for patterns. If multiple reviews rave about how well a stylist works with curls, that’s a great sign. If several complain about rushed services, that might be a red flag.
4. Ease Into It With a Low-Commitment Service
If the idea of trusting someone new with your hair gives you anxiety (totally understandable!), don’t dive straight into a drastic cut or color. Start small—book a blowout, a gloss, or a conditioning treatment. This gives you a chance to test the waters, see how they handle your hair, and get a feel for their communication style.
5. Ask for Referrals (A.K.A. Compliment a Stranger’s Hair)
One of the most reliable ways to find a great stylist is through word of mouth. If you see someone whose hair you love, don’t be shy—ask them where they go! Most people are flattered and happy to share. If you’re new to town and don’t know anyone yet, even asking a coworker or barista with great hair can be a solid lead.
6. It’s More Than Just Hair—It’s a Relationship
At the end of the day, finding a stylist is about more than just technical skill. Yes, we want someone who can deliver the perfect cut and color, but we also want to feel heard, understood, and at ease in their chair. A great stylist-client connection is built on trust, communication, and a little bit of hair magic.
So take your time, do your research, and when you find “the one,” hold onto them—because good hair days start with the right stylist.